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to think that this is not punctuation?

73 replies

Kveta · 01/05/2012 11:45

'are u free friday lol'
'want to play today lol hun maybe afternoon lol'
'you're babby is cute wen you home lol'

All genuine examples of comments I've read on facebook this week (on photos/status updates posted by various friends).

Since when did 'lol' become a replacement for '?', '!', and '.'?

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MrsBovary · 01/05/2012 12:46

I'm sure there are.

JarethTheGoblinKing · 01/05/2012 12:48

An argument FOR txt spk on MN? WHat is going on? Confused

Birdsgottafly · 01/05/2012 12:48

MrsBovery-perhaps you haven't got enough well educated people on your FB, to find that, but as you say, it is your personal experience, you didn't state it as fact.

doormat · 01/05/2012 12:56

kveta "down with the kids or something"... are you implying that we wear hoodies, say yo man,, and do a wickety woo with our hands... good gosh get a life

IneedAbetterNicknameIn2012 · 01/05/2012 12:57

Do you think they are confused and think that lol stands for lots of love?

When I was a teenager, and 'txt spk' (which we also used in chat rooms online) lol DID men lots of love :)

IneedAbetterNicknameIn2012 · 01/05/2012 12:58

*Mean not men Blush

MrsBovary · 01/05/2012 13:00

Oh no, not at all, Birds. I'm not really a Facebook user (I use it for a 'political' and an education group only) and I was speaking more generally.

Fishandjam · 01/05/2012 13:03

Can't bear LOL.

As for "hun", my inner pedant always wonders why I am being referred to as a member of a nomadic and warlike Asian people who devastated or controlled large parts of eastern and central Europe and who exercised their greatest power under Attila in the 5th century AD...

gnushoes · 01/05/2012 13:04

agree with Kveta. Makes me want to go out with a shotgun.

Rhinosaurus · 01/05/2012 13:05

I always though LOL meant "Laugh Out Loud", however some people also use it as "Lots of Love".

ROFLMAO and PMSL also annoy me - does anyone ever actually roll on the floor laughing, or piss themselves lauging? What if they are at work or doing the weekly shop?

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Kveta · 01/05/2012 13:07

by 'down with the kids' I suppose I meant 'want to be aligned with the lowest common denominators'. and what is a 'wickety woo'?

I have a relative who lectures in a large university in Scotland, who says that the standard of english in some exam papers is so atrocious that he has started marking people down for it. He has had students write 'lol' in some papers, as well as some other txt spk style abbreviations. So education clearly does not = ability to express oneself in a coherent manner.

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doormat · 01/05/2012 13:07

rhino lol was used in letter writing, like swalk

Rhinosaurus · 01/05/2012 13:08

I always thought Hun was a derogatory term used for Germans by the English and Americans?

I don't think it is anything to do with level of education, it is more that if other people are using that, you tend to do it too.

Debsbear · 01/05/2012 13:08

I love facebook and hate this kind of lazy posting. If you want to lose these "friends" without deleting them yourself, just keep correcting their posts. They will either change their ways (unlikely) or remove you from their friends list themselves. Job done!

doormat · 01/05/2012 13:09

kverta is one to assume that you are that old fashioned that you carve your words in stone

Kveta · 01/05/2012 13:10

Rhino in the case of PMSL, sometimes it is accurate for those of us with weak pelvic floors and large babies sitting on them :o

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doormat · 01/05/2012 13:15

rhino hun is short for honey...it is used as an affectionate term..dont know why is wasnt "hon".. may because of the pronounication of honey it was spelt as hun

LumpyLatimer · 01/05/2012 13:18

From a sample size of roughly 400 on my Facebook page, I can confirm there is an almost direct correlation between a person's level of education and their tendency to use text speak. Or indeed to post fatuous chain emails about showing your support for premature babies etc. (because of course if you don't copy and paste the pink-edged picture of a baby dressed as a bluetit you are in fact absolutely 100% against babies, as a whole Hmm)

So there.

Death to the lot of them (not the babies).

FondleWithCare · 01/05/2012 13:19

I hate text speak with a passion. It makes me irrationally angry.

This doesn't make me old-fashioned either, I'm 23, I just like things to be written coherently.

imnotmymum · 01/05/2012 13:20

MrsBovary you never fail to amuse and astound me. lol

Rhinosaurus · 01/05/2012 13:20

I am against using text speak and diligently spell out all words in full with correct apostrophes and their there and they're in the correct context.

However, the Apple autocorrect renders all my efforts completely useless, particularly when it changed a text saying "gently rub" to "genital rub" in a text to my mum talking about getting a mark off her table :-/

Kveta · 01/05/2012 13:21

doormat assume whatever you like :) just please don't do it in text speak :o

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doormat · 01/05/2012 13:22

fondle "down with the kids or something" makes you old fashioned...that statement sounds like a throwback from the 60-70's Grin

JarethTheGoblinKing · 01/05/2012 13:23

You're fighting a losing battle there doormat :)

Guinnessisgoodforyou · 01/05/2012 13:26

I'm with the OP, I make it easier on my eyes by just deleting or hiding most updates from people who can't be arsed to write a sentence. For me it's the 'pmsl' or other ones which really wind me up. Just click on the 'hide most updates' button and job done!

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