am not going to namechange as i dont give a monkey's minge who knows but plz bear with me
before ds2 passed away there were parties at my home at least once a month, for around 10 yrs...dh =dickhead insisted on inviting every member of his family, including nieces, nephs prospective spouses and their kids plus every other family member going...these were essentially piss ups where i had to cook a mountain of food/ clean up after etc etc...my family were invited but as they were teetotal they hardly came...
the parties all stopped when ds 2 passed away as we both didnt want to head into a bottle and not come out so we both gave up drinking...
since then we have been invited to parties, where we do attend but we are teetotal
looked on dick heads fb last nite as he had a msg (i do his games for him)
there was a msg off his niece asking bout bouncy castle for her ds birthday
i mentioned it to dick head as i knew niece's ds birthday was coming up and asked when it was, so we could take our grandaughters who are same age as her ds
dickhead said "oh it was yesterday"
i mentioned that we had 2 gd on that day, his reply was "only kids same age"
i replied they are the same age
dickhead replied "oh i dont know "
AIBU to not expect but would of been nice to have had an invite for our gd's, its not like they dont see them as they all get together at mil at least once a week
i am really upset at dh lacsidaisical attitude over this....he does this all the time when it comes to his side of the family..they can do no wrong...yet he expects his whole family to be invited to the opening of an envelope
annoyed is not the word