Genuinely puzzled by this. Picked up dc1, 4, from preschool today and was asked to speak to the leader. Apparently my dc had been defiant and would not listen or do what she was told. So teachers told her she could have a drink but no food at snack time (which is always fruit).
She also had a bite mark on her, but no one could explain that.
Preschool runs from 9am to 12.15, so it seems a long time to me to make a child go without a snack.
Plus my dc, like most others, only gets worse if she is hungry. I'm also not sure that withholding of food should be used as a discipline measure.
What do others think?
Apart from this incident, I like the preschool, though recently dc1 hasn't seemed so keen.