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AIBU to think that they CAN do PE outside even if it is raining?!!

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5madthings · 26/04/2012 21:42

My ds1 is at high school, he is 12 and in yr 8 and over the last few months i noticed he hadnt been doing PE as much, they have a two week timetable, one week they do it once, the next week they do it twice.

It turns out that when it rains they often dont do PE at all! They have a gym and several big halls, but these are sometimes used for exams etc, i can understand if its PISSING down then maybe they wouldnt do outdoor PE but they have a good pe kit, with stuff for colder/wet weather and there are showers etc for after PE so if they get a bit cold, wet and muddy then they can clean up afterwards.

It turns out that often they are watching films instead of doing PE when it rains, recently they watched a james bond film and to make it a PE lesson they had to spot the 'gymnastic style moves' in the film!! not that they were quizzed about the film to see what they had spotted anyway.

when i was at high school we did PE outside in all weather, ie hockey in the friggin snow! now i probably wouldnt expect him to do PE outside in the snow, its probably against some health and safety rule, but surely a bit of rain is no reason not to do PE outdoors?

they have tennis courts, big fields with running track, football pitches, rounders fields etc all marked out, plus basket ball courts, rugby, etc etc, some of these sports can be done in the rain yes?

is this some new healthy and safety thing ie they 'might' slip on the wet grass?

aibu? or should they be doing PE regardless of weather conditions and not watching films?!!

OP posts:
HolyCameraConfusionBatman · 27/04/2012 18:18

'to make it a PE lesson they had to spot the 'gymnastic style moves' in the film!!'

that's bloody brilliant Grin

You're probably not being unreasonable, but I hated, hated, hated PE and being forced out in the rain would have made it 10 times worse. Ideally I think they should have a choice; stay in and do written work (relevant to PE) or go outside in the rain. Let the kids who love it do it, but the rest can stay warm and dry!

whomovedmychocolate · 27/04/2012 18:19

Personally I let my kids play outside in Monsoon conditions - there are no bad weathers, just inappropriate clothes IMHO. You need to get used to it. It will rain a lot during your life, if you are closeted away from it, you never learn the joy of hiding under trees, jumping in muddy puddles and generally enjoying getting a soaking. Furthermore, it's so nice to come in afterwards, get changed, warm and encourages kids to eat their lunch instead of being finickety.

5madthings · 27/04/2012 19:48

i let my kids play out whatever the weather as well it doesnt seem to be doing them any harm! today they cycled to and from school in the rain Shock dd 16mths went on a bike seat on the back of my bike in an all in one fleece waterproof suit, she wasnt bothered by the rain and nor were the boys, ds2 has been out playing football in the rain. Its been damp and drizzly today with downpours occasionally, the primary school aged children have been out playing but again at high school today they couldnt do PE outdoors, they DID however do some stuff indoors in the hall apparently!

Tomorrow i have a few things to do in town, dp is at work so the kids will come with me, we will walk and probably get rained on, we will probably stop at a park on the way back and get wet, muddy etc then we shall come home and get dry and have a warm drink, after taht dd will have a nap and with any luck ds4 may also have a sleep, getting kids outdoors is good for them and us, esp if it means they have a nice sleep afterwards Wink Grin

and easily did i see you say i wasnt hardcore Shock i agree actually i am not hardcore i just am not bothered by a bit of rain and i would rather go out and get wet than be stuck indoors for days on end!

OP posts:
Bunbaker · 27/04/2012 20:03

I don't have a problem with walking about in the rain, but it does make it difficult for me to see because I wear glasses Grin

GenerationsNxt · 07/10/2014 00:12

When I was young,I had cross -country in the rain,snow,hail and windy for 1hour,shivering and running for 1hour,p.e no matter what weather,even in a thunder storm,the teacher said stay away from the trees, loved the rain, nowadays they won't let you out because it's drizzling

milkpudding · 07/10/2014 08:27

I agree that kids should do PE despite the weather.
But if it is cold it should be something that keeps everyone active and warm.
I hated PE as I was rubbish at hand eye coordination and I felt very self conscious. I remember shivering at the back of many a netball game- I just didn't know how to get involved, I was scared that if I fumbled the ball everyone would laugh, and the teacher just left those who weren't good at sport shivering at the back.
As an adult I started doing an army style exercise class and loved it, now I exercise outside all through the year.
PE teachers do need t o motivate those lacking in ability and enthusiasm.

ImogenQuy · 07/10/2014 08:39

Whoever coined the expression "no such thing as bad weather, only inappropriate clothing" clearly didn't wear glasses!

Preciousbane · 07/10/2014 08:43

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MidniteScribbler · 07/10/2014 08:44

Have you ever sat in a classroom with 30 wet, sweaty, steaming children? Imagine wet shaggy dog x 30. Meanwhile, you are also soggy and wet and feeling miserable and still have to put on a good lesson for the afternoon. And the lingering musty smell in the classroom after a whole afternoon of a room fully of soggy children and their muddy boots. Then at bell time you have to deal with the handful of parents who are so concerned that little precious will get a chill because they have been out in the wet and want to blame you for it. And when you finally are done with the parents, you have the cleaners at you for the mess of muddy shoes in the classroom. No thanks, we'll use the gym instead if it's raining.

If there are indoor facilities, then they should be used. If not, you can still be creative by shoving the desks in to the corners and using the space. Or putting on a lesson about the relevant topic. The OP's school doesn't sound like they are teaching PE effectively, but I also don't think that dragging people out in the rain is the best solution either.

ThatBloodyWoman · 07/10/2014 08:50

YANBU.
I don't get 'wet play' either.

Let them get wet and muddy (so long as its not so cold they'll get hypothermic, obviously) and feel the elements.

moaningminnie2 · 07/10/2014 08:50

My friends DD slipped playing hockey in muddy conditions and sustained a complicated break which required 2 operations and 6 months in pot.

It's ok banging on about H&S 'gorn mad' but when your child is seriously hurt , you might think differently or at least they might

docpeppa · 07/10/2014 08:54

I did PE in the rain, never did me any harm.

Kids don't get outside enough as it is these days

CheerfulYank · 07/10/2014 08:55

If they have specific kit bought for rainy days you are definitely NBU.

We don't go out in rain here or negative temps but there is a big gym with all sorts of physical activity equipment just for PE class.

ErrolTheDragon · 07/10/2014 09:02

Oh, an old thread - but of course still relevant. midnite - the OP was talking about secondary age kids, they get changed for PE and have showers available, so the damp dog scenario doesn't apply.

CheerfulYank · 07/10/2014 09:23

Just realized it's a zombie! My first clue should have been Mad's DD being 26 months old :o

CheerfulYank · 07/10/2014 09:23

16 ffs.

5madthings · 07/10/2014 09:27

Ooh this is old! Ds1 doesn't even go to that school anymore!

And dd is nearly 4!

And my kids still go out in all weather's!

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Sunnymeg · 07/10/2014 09:49

DS 13 does PE in the rain unless thunder and lightening are forecast. We have to send him in with a towel so he can dry himself off before changing back into uniform.

LarrytheCucumber · 07/10/2014 11:06

I don't get 'wet play' either.
You'd be amazed how many parents complain if their child is 'made' to play outside in the rain. Quite a few children don't have adequate coats either, because they are dropped off by car.

Hakluyt · 07/10/2014 11:09

It depends. Sometimes the problem is cutting up the pitches and making them unplayable. Sometimes the problem is no facilities for getting clean again. Sometimes it's parents complaining. Sometimes it's a crap policy.

WaywardOn3 · 07/10/2014 13:06

I used to refuse to do PE outside if it was raining as I hated being wet and cold for the rest of the day. Not that we ever did any PE lesson other than cross country in the rain, if it rained we did indoor PE stuff.

If however it was something I enjoyed and actively wanted to do even torrential rain wouldn't have stopped me :-) I have many fond memories of riding horses when it was pissing it down and falling off into massive freezing cold puddles lol

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