My mother (75) received a letter from the pensions credit people saying that they wanted to conduct a review of her benefits over the telephone. Conversation to last twenty minutes - She just wont be able to do this, she is a physically very able lady and of sound mind, but like many old people this sort of thing leaves her terrified.
Importantly we are in a crap place just now, she is undergoing health tests that may not have a very nice outcome (i can't discuss it i get to upset)
I phoned the pensions credit people to request a home visit so that i could be present to help her with it. Then, whilst i was on the phone i read through the letter properly and realised they wanted to review any changes, monies in accounts, the full shihbang between 2005 and 2010
. So i had the woman on the phone and i said, hang on a minute, why do you want this information now? She had to find someone to ask, turns out this review was overlooked at the time, they have a backlog (someone has royally fucked up). They want bank statements, details of my dads pension (he passed away in 2005) etc - the only monies my mother will have had in those times would be pensions credits and my dads pension (i THINK her pensions credits has some sort of disability benefit in it but i am not sure).
I was absolutely aghast and told them that they have bloody missed the boat and there is no way on this earth i am putting my elderly (likely terminally ill) mother through the additional stress of this, especially as i know that they will have all the information they need anyway.
I have made a complaint and am waiting on the guy to ring me back, he did, a few weeks ago but what with my mother being in and out of hospital etc i have negleccted to get back to them.
Surely they can't do this, this is THEIR MISTAKE, not my mothers - i actually said to the woman "please clarify that this is due to an oversight on your behalf" and she confirmed this on the phone.
Inccompetent doesn't even cover it 
