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AIBU to go through all potential cm's OFSTED reports with a fine-toothed comb?

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dogdaysareover · 24/04/2012 21:07

I am in the process of finding a cm for DS. He is my first baby and as such I haven't got a network of mums with older children iyswim. I am a teacher myself and am usually very cynical about OFSTED reports. I have been through the OFSTED mill enough times to know that a ten minute 'drop in' to your lesson is never representative of all of the hard work you have done throughout the year and also depends very much on how the kids decide they will play it. I've known classes really stitch up colleagues because they think it's funny to play up to an inspector and cases where weaker teachers are made to look good because of additional support being given on the day, bad kids moved out etc. (I know, but it happens) However, I now find myself reading, re-reading and re-reading again the reports for DS's possible cms. It's turned into a bit of a guilty pleasure to be perfectly honest Blush I just don't know where else to start without any word of mouth recommendations to go on. What do other mums do?

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DialMforMummy · 25/04/2012 12:45

My previous CM had a good Ofsted and good references. However, I withdrew DS quite quickly because the bottom line is that there was no chemistry between us and I found her terribly cold. I think she looked after my LO well but there was no love or tenderness. He gets plenty of that where he is now.
I think that how you feel about her is more important. I know I should have trusted my instinct on that one.

Poledra · 25/04/2012 13:17

frumpet, no, I'm East of England

ElizabethDarcy · 25/04/2012 13:52

Speaking as a CM (rated Outstanding at both inspections)... yes, read the reports.. we work very hard to please Ofsted and to follow the outlined curriculum (we have to show evidence of everything we do with the children.. written and photographic), and ensure we are following govt guidelines and regulations et al. Policies, procedures etc. etc. the list is endless.

Things like having an advanced paediatric first aid, having public liability insurance, are properly Ofsted registered etc. are crucial, and many CMs do lots of other courses/have other qualifications, so it's good to know about these.

We do courses on Safeguarding, Health and Nutrition, Makaton, Inclusion etc. to be as best prepared and as knowledgeable as possible for those in our care. It's a huge responsibility and one taken very seriously.

However... apart from the report and courses/qualifications outlined... you need to go with your gut feel about the CM. Will your child be looked after with love and care? Is this merely a job, or also a passion for the CM?

Then look at other things like her home setting, resources, toys and activities et al. Phone current parents for references... ply them with questions.

I always do think it good to go to a few CMs/nurseries, you can then gauge better who you like most and who will suit your family and your own needs (days/times etc.) best. Above all, go with your gut feel.

When interviewing a prospective new parent/s and child/ren I am going with my gut feel too. I have a happy and content childcare setting and don't wish for any disruption/potentially difficult parents etc. We need to work together to ensure we have a good working relationship in ensuring that your child has a happy and fun childhood, full of discovery, learning and joy.

FoofFighter · 25/04/2012 13:56

dogdaysareover As a teacher yes your experience of an inspection might only be them sticking their heads in for ten minutes, therefore only getting a snapshot. Slightly different for a CM inspection - mine stayed for almost 5 hours!! I'd like to think she got a bloody good idea of the service I provided and her report was accurate and a true representation of what I did.

FoofFighter · 25/04/2012 14:01

And also someone who is marked down for not putting policies/paperwork into practise /providing opportunities as they should be, well I wouldn't be so keen on them having my own child as from my experience with fellow CMs is that these are the ones who simply go on endless rounds of coffee mornings and groups and in and out of the car every 5 minutes, TV time all the time etc. and not actively doing things with the child.

IME.

ElizabethDarcy · 25/04/2012 14:03

100% agree FoolFighter... mine was here nigh on 6 hours earlier this year, previous was with me for 4 hours. Gave her enough time to go through all my paperwork plus spend time with the kids and I. Thorough and intense (oh the questions!), but brilliant. Wonderful to chat with another person so passionate about children. Her report was spot on.

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