I've never been close to my uncle, he's one of those people who says really insulting things in the belief that it is funny, and doesn't get why people get annoyed at him. I've always kept him at a distance because I got sick of the constant jibes, and when he met my DH for the first time he insulted him enough that my DH refused to see him for 2 years. My aunt (his wife) isn't much more likeable.
Today we were asked to go for a meal by my dad. At the meal was my dad, brother, aunt, uncle and a few others. We obviously took along our 3 week old DS.
At the restaurant there were enough of us that we were sat on two tables, DH and I sat with my dad, brother and cousin, and my aunt and uncle sat with the rest of the family on the other table. Our 3 week old DS had his pram next to DH's seat.
Before the dessert course was served my uncle came over to our table and said to DH, "move, my wife wants to sit next to the baby". Both DH and I assumed he was joking, and DH laughed and said "ah fuck off". Uncle took offence though, and insisted that DH had to move so that my aunt could sit next to DS.
Neither DH or I understand why he should have to move so someone else can sit next to his son! So DH refused to move.
So, opinions please, was DH BU? Or was my uncle?