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AIBU?

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5 1/2 year old in a buggy?

29 replies

twilight3 · 19/04/2012 20:16

I'm asking for opinions on this, my foster daughter is 5 1/2, the school we put her in is about 2 1/2 miles away. It can be a nightmare to get there and back as it is, but my car bit the dust during the holidays and now I can't drive her there. I don't mind walking, it's a nice walk, but it's obviously a very long walk for such a small child, plus I'm also caring for her 4y.o. brother.

I have a bike trailer which turns into a double buggy, so it suits me perfectly, I only have to do the pick up anyway.

I have thought of taxis but it would be very expensive, plus it is I think a bit insensitive for a fostered child to go home in a taxi when there is another way.

FD actually loves the trailer, she's looking forward to get in it, calls it "the ninky nonk" and was telling me today how pleased she is that the car broke down.
We're hoping to have moved closer to the school by next term in Sept., but I won't be able to get another car for 5 or 6 weeks.

Let me tell you also that FD has selective mutism and has not yet spoken to her teachers or all her classmates. One of the other mums saw us today and said "oh, a 5 yo in a buggy, isn't that a bit precious? Maybe that's why she won't speak to anyone, she thinks she's a baby". I was left looking at her with my jaw wide open. Thankfully FD and FS were playing loudly in the trailer and didn't hear a thing, but... how cruel can people be?

Now, do you think IBU putting in the trailer and walking to school? WIBU to say something to the other mum next time I see her?

OP posts:
lolajane2009 · 20/04/2012 15:25

that mother should be poked in the eye imo

BillyBollyBandy · 20/04/2012 15:25

I don't get why this bothers people, being in a buggy I mean. 99 times out of a 100 it is because the parent either has to walk quickly to get somewhere (work generally after drop off) or there is a considerable distance involved.

Siddhartha · 20/04/2012 15:33

YA so NBU
Explain to this woman that -

Its. A. Trailer.

Vastly different from a pushchair.

ghoulsjustwannahavefun · 20/04/2012 17:14

mother2many
My 7 year old sits in both a buggy and a shopping trolley due to physical disabilities - the buggy is a disability buggy but looks like an ordinary mclaren just larger.
I have numerous comments about both modes of transport. I have taken to handing out leaflets to those who like to comments with info about his condition.
Not a direct knock at you, just wanted to put accross that not all kids in trolleys are there because the parents are being pfb itswim Smile.

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