The saga of the prostitute shagging ex continues...

[ThisIsNotMyLife]

I had a few drinks, got a bit morose and googled his old dating website user name. Bad idea I know.

He's still logging on to dating sites and listing himself as single.

Do I take a screenshot and send it anonymously to his new partner? Whom he's moved in with (the week before he was begging me to take him back and threatening sucide).

I don't want him back. I'd rather chew my own leg off and be beaten to death with the wet end.

Why would you? you sound far too involved for someone who wouldn't want him back IMO.

Why? Let him go shag whoever he likes and be glad it's not you.

If you don't want him why don't you leave him be?!!

No. Don't do it. Don't get involved.

It's no longer any of your business - why are you so involved?

No. You sound bitter.

You probably have every reason to be but you're doing yourself the most damage if you don't move on and become disinterested in his life.

I think it's worth you knowing that there is no 'saga' anymore. The saga ended at the same time as your relationship ended. This is you wanting to drag it out and seeming to want to prolong the bitterness and anger. I can understand why it's easy to get caught up in that cycle, but you do know it doesn't benefit you at all op? It's time for you to move on from him.

If I were you I'd stay out of it as it will cause more problems and what he does now is none of your business.

The best thing you can do is focus on moving on, forgetting about him and his sordid life.

A moment of maddness. MN has spoken. I'll leave the stupid man to dig another hole. I probably wouldn't have listened if anybody had warned me either.

You're doing the right thing. My ex was similar but when he left me for the OW (when I was pregnant, no less), I just thought 'he's someone else's problem now'. Try and remember that next time you have a few drinks and feel morose .

I will do.

I've bought cookies - not quite as consoling as reeking havock but a bit more dignified!

Taking the sort of revenge you want would be wrong....however planning it in minute detail and carrying it out in your imagination could be very enjoyable.

Am I alone in thinking the new woman deserves to know? Send her the screenshot, providing you can do it anonymously. If he's shagging around, her health is at risk.

wellwisher, no you're not. I think I posted on the OP's other thread about this. I'd want to know.

Aren't there children living with them as well? Wouldn't it be better for them if they end it sooner than later.

why are you stalking him?