AIBU to find masturbation lonely?

[Molasses]

It takes seconds and is a bit... meh. But I get cranky if I don't. Not sure what the solution is.

Are you looking for smutty/witty answers, or are you actually lonely in other parts of your life OP?

Hard to guage with this much gin this time of night/small OP.

I don't know really. Witty/smutty might help! I'm seeing someone but we don't live together and haven't had sex for about a week - am horny but hate the after-wank feeling. I prefer when someone's there?! I wish I could just have a sodding wank and feel good about it.

I'm not witty or smutty, so you're fresh out there I'm afraid

Are you feeling a bit neglected by your DP/railing against not living together or anything like that?

You say it takes seconds. Perhaps you are being a bit perfunctory. Treat yourself, take your time, tease yourself, fantasise, change positions etc.

M or F OP?

If M then it is normal to feel down or turned off straight after. Work on the fantasy aspects and take your time but don't panic as it is quite normal.

If F... I know some ladies who are quite similar to men in that regard so the fantasy and build up are more important than the release. If you don't just lose your drive after one orgasm why not try again, build it up. as Bush says tease a bit. You may find that it is more satisfying if you build up several smaller orgasms and teases into a big finish (either that or it will wipe you out so much that you don't care).

Remember that masturbation is as much (if not more) mental as it is physical. Really work on the fantasy aspect too.

I recommend this (it's not all filth, but you will definitely find some , and a trip to Ann Summers!

YANBU
I don't do it much for that reason. Prefer to wait and do it together. Of course after a week or so of no sex it becomes an imperative but like shaving my legs or something, I do it because it's annoying if you leave it too long and you feel refreshed Or something afterwards.