Took the Dcs out today just a walk to a local village. We stopped off at the local cafe and the Dcs where sitting we were chatting and so on the waiter came with nuggets for Ds (3) and he stated very loudly , 'fuck you'. The waiter turned red and walked off. Ds has a bit of a speech problem and if he is tried or excited it shows so I just thought it was that. I got some odd looks from around me, I ignored it and they ate.
We left and started walking back the lady who used to teach my Sunday school when I was little spotted us. She is nice but she is also very 'prim and proper' she is also an ex-headteacher. We stopped to talk and Ds said ' fuck sake mum I don't want to stop' [bublush] . The lady launched into a lecture at Ds about his language. She said 'god will punish you for using words like that' To which Dd (5) piped in saying 'mummy and daddy don't believe in god cause daddy is a racist' (We worked out later she meant atheist) Lady turned an odd purple-red colour. I said sorry and good-bye and ranas fast as the Dcs would go.
We walked to the shop and while walking I explained to Ds that he shouldn't say it and so on. He looked thoughtful and just as we got into the very long queue he said 'Is this like when daddy said I shouldn't call you a bitch even though granny said it'
Dh has not told me about this at all. The whole queue and shop staff turned to stare at us. I wanted the ground to swollow me up.
I am never leaving the house again-ever.