I was made redundant at 26, just as were talking about TTC. However we ended up putting the date back three years, as we got our finances in order. I never considered having children, when we were not in a position to pay for them. If an accident had happened, I would have been hugely grateful for the benefit system, and really do appreciate having child benefit.
My cousin, at 21, got his 16 year old girlfriend pregnant. My mum didn't think the relationship would last, and that she would be a single mum with a large family, all on benefits. The girlfriend's parents were both living on benefits, although her Dad had worked for about 25 years previously, before claiming disability benefit.
20 years on, and my cousin and his then teenage girlfriend are happily married, with two children. My cousin always worked, and although his girlfriend did claim benefits, it was only for about two years. She went back to college, and qualified as an accountant. Their daughter is at university studying to be a teacher, and their son taking his GCSEs. They own their home, and have proved all the doubters wrong. They were always an intelligent couple, and never let being young parents define them. :)
My point is, I'm happy for tax to go to supporting those who need it, but I don't approve of living off benefits, and having a big family. I live near Wrexham, and there are lots of families, preferring to live off benefits, as a lifestyle choice, rather than work. I have even heard one man boast, that he has never done an honest days work.
Re, bejeesus:
Where do you think the next generation of builders, electricians, plumbers, mechanics is going to come from? Not from you poncey lot that's for sure
Nobody is suggesting only middle classes should have children. I find that suggestion ludicrous. My husband is an electrician btw.