My dh's brother and his wife just had a little baby girl, we havn't met her yet so dh arranged for himself,me and our dc's to go this weekend to meet her. I'm not too keen on going as his brother has made zero effort with our dc's but I feel it would be petty to not go coz of this. I do like bil and his wife btw. Anyway, I've just seen an email from bil confirming that Sunday is fine and he'll get some beers in if my dh is up for it. I am majorly pissed off by this, what does he think I'll b doing? Looking after the kids while they have a great time? Aibu to be pissed off about this? Dh hasn't seen e mail btw.