WIBU or even unfair to discuss dp with SIL seeing as they are bro and sis

[scuzy]

she is having relationship trouble quite similar to me. we have hinted at this through texts. i have no friends that i can confide that much info (very much a relationship that looks fine and dandy on the outside) and all my family are far away. but because its her brother would that be putting her in an unbiased and unfair position? actually now that i type this out i think i know the answer. not fair on her. sorry for the rant

It depends on what the issues are and how close you are to her.
I hate it when my sil talks to me about my brother. Her latest was how he doesn't appear to be very interested in sex now that she's 9 months pregnant. bleurgh. But I know she's close to her 2 sisters and has lots of friends, if she seemed to have no one else to confide in, of course I'd try to help.

Maybe you could listen to her problems and get some ideas or ask a few questions about how she deals with certain stuff so you don't have to share much of your details?

Also post on mn relationship board. You'll get great advice there. Good luck.

thanks exexe.