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to think that a GLASS of jeffing tea is NOT THE SAME

43 replies

SilentBoob · 23/03/2012 11:30

I was offered a cup of tea. A CUP of tea. CUP.

I have just been given the most delicious looking brew... in a fucking GLASS. It's mug shaped, but it's SEE THROUGH. Frosted, with a seam up the handle. It was a freebie advertising a housing loan. AND IT'S NOT THE SAME AS A CUP OF TEA. It's ruined everything.

Should I leave the bastard?

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ChaosTrulyReigns · 23/03/2012 11:31

It depends.

Are having milk in it?

[crucial]

nickelhasababy · 23/03/2012 11:31

yes.

Frontpaw · 23/03/2012 11:31

It's ok if you are having proper Russian or Persian tea from a samaver (no milk) or mint tea with proper mint leaves.

Anything else is just wrong. Especially coffee in a glass.

Frontpaw · 23/03/2012 11:32

Who have it to you? Do they know that you are on here dissing their tea?

Slainte · 23/03/2012 11:33

Glass cups remind me of my late Gran, I love them because of this. Sorry Smile

ShatnersBassoon · 23/03/2012 11:34

I like those brown glass ones you only get in staff canteens and caravans. There's something a bit dangerous and exciting about having a glass of tea.

MirandaGoshawk · 23/03/2012 11:34

My first thought was that YANBU - there are various unbreakable rules about tea and not being in a glass is one of them - but if it is mug-shaped, with a handle, then.... how can I put this? If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, etc., . Now, drink it up before it gets cold Smile

SilentBoob · 23/03/2012 11:34

It's a cup of PG with milk. IN A GLASS.

Does he know I'm dissing his tea? He probably assumes as much given that I've chuntered for 5 minutes and am now quiet and typing furiously.

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Frontpaw · 23/03/2012 11:35

Is the tea bag still in there?

Pandemoniaa · 23/03/2012 11:36

Leave the bastard. Still wearing the tea.

TheOneWithTheHair · 23/03/2012 11:37

SilentBoob YANBU but you have too much time on your hands!! Grin

Frontpaw · 23/03/2012 11:37

So this it DP? So the mug is in your home? Why do you have such an article?

SilentBoob · 23/03/2012 11:38

Insult to injury; have just gone to the mug cupboard for something better to pour the brew into... my lion and giraffe mug was RIGHT THERE at the front of the cupboard. He reached past it to get the glass.

It's not a shiny brown canteen mug / glass. It's more like a tankard.

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cocolepew · 23/03/2012 11:38

YABU, you used to get brown glass ones when I was young, i thought they were very exotic.

SilentBoob · 23/03/2012 11:39

Time on my hands - well yes, breastfeeding a 2 week old baby Grin

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Frontpaw · 23/03/2012 11:40

He's trying to tell you something.

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PastGrace · 23/03/2012 11:41

I went to a new hairdresser and the salon gave me a mug of tea in a glass mug. Not in an endearingly dated old-canteen-tea-cups type way but a look-how-alternative-we-are-with-glass-mugs type way.

I did not return.

TheOneWithTheHair · 23/03/2012 11:41

SilentBoob you are killing me. I would do the exact same thing! Make sure you tell him how rediculous he is. Everyone knows when you make a brew for someone the first choice is always their own mug.

BusinessTrills · 23/03/2012 11:41

Often I am offered a cup of tea and what I get is a mug.

YANBU to think it is not the same

Y might be BU to complain if this glass mug is larger than "a cup" - you might have more tea this way.

TheOneWithTheHair · 23/03/2012 11:42

X-post. Congratulations. Thanks

AFuckingKnackeredWoman · 23/03/2012 11:42

Frontpaw is right. He is preparing to drop a bombshell then leave you.
Get in there first. Tell him to leave and take his glass of tea with him.

ShatnersBassoon · 23/03/2012 11:42

I love the sound of a tankard of tea. I wish my DH could be bothered to serve tea in unpredictable and varied receptacles. I might leave the bastard.

Frontpaw · 23/03/2012 11:44

It's a metaphor

SilentBoob · 23/03/2012 11:45

No no BusinessTrills, the mug is not the point, the GLASSNESS of the mug is the drama.

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avoidinglibelaction · 23/03/2012 11:46

You have a DH who makes you tea when your BFing - YABU- I had to die of thirst while BFing as a glass of water was too much to ask- keep this one train him about mug etiquette and move on to tea in the morning in bed- one step at a time Grin