I am being unreasonable, especially with the tears. In my defense, I have an ill little boy and have been surviving on 3 hours sleep for the past couple of nights which is horrible.
I'm just really annoyed, I got a charge for a direct debit that was returned as there wasn't enough money in the account. Fair enough, except I stayed up till midnight (despite being knackered) to transfer some funds from the joint account when the tax credits came in. I did it probably latest 00:10.
The most annoying thing is I have funds in another account I could have transferred and didn't because as a member of staff at the bank I tell people they can do this to avoid a charge! I have never been told it was wrong, and now I have a charge to pay, which is really bloody annoying as I am on maternity leave and on a tight budget.
Sigh. I know IABU but I am so annoyed.
As you were 