One of my best friends was on income support which means many other benefits came along with it rent, some bills etc (to be fair this was a while ago so maybe a lot has changed).
She could afford to pay off catalogues at £75 per month (purchases incl Gucci sunglasses) holidays to Ibiza with the girls etc etc. She had a daughter who got free school dinners etc and free bus passes and many other allowances or free things and seemed to have enough money to go out whenever she liked. She did get a job to be fair to her but after losing the benefits she was £30 a month better off - not really worth it for all the stress of being a working mum so she went back onto benefits. I can't say I blame her though!
I'm not saying the right people shouldn't get benefits but I think it is often given to the wrong people, in the wrong situation in the wrong way.
Benefits should not be an ambition - ie leave school get pregnant so I get a free house! It should be there for those who really need it!
DH got made redundant and all we got was the £67 per week which they wouldn't back date to the day he got made redundant (his appt at the job centre was a week after). I earnt just over the threshold for any extra help - £24k at the time so we had just lost £36k in earnings.
Luckily we don't really stretch ourselves with a big mortgage or anything but if we had done that why shouldn't we, we worked hard for our money and if we wanted to spend it on a big house why should we?! Apparently according to the government we probably shouldn't as because we are working people we will get stiffed if one of us loses our job!