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AIBU to think that people earning £960 per week don't really need Child Benefit?

689 replies

OldGreyWiffleTest · 21/03/2012 13:39

Well, am I?

OP posts:
devon0000 · 21/03/2012 19:23

London the idea that my children's salary will in any any way subsidise you pension scares me.

Starwisher · 21/03/2012 19:25

Thank goodness Devon I thought it was only me seeing this!

devon0000 · 21/03/2012 19:26

By that I mean tax and NI. Yes, people have children because they want to but it is a benefit to society overall. After all it is our children who will help pay our pensions and the pensions of those without children.

EdlessAllenPoe · 21/03/2012 19:27

My two pence:

the main complaint seems to be on the subject of fairness.

The benefits system is not fair...

there are cliff edges all over the place, bandings where a minor difference in circumstances make a huge difference in income (such as 24 hours vs 23 hours part time work to name but one)

the taxation system has plenty to offer in the way of similar...

complaining about arbitrary and unfair limits ....they are all over the place. that's the way it works.

to complain about the way one benefit is done being unfair...well They all bloody are!

if you are in that higher-rate tax bracket, you are at least better placed to suffer than unfairness than most.

londonone · 21/03/2012 19:30

Devon - Why? They will have received a lot of support from the state, free education, healthcare and in some cases housing etc Then they will contribute towards pensions etc as they get older much as my generation are doing now. In reality I doubt there will be pensions around as we know them now when I retire! The fact that I don't think that you should be given money simply for living your life has no bearing on it. Or do you think that you should in some way be rewarded for choosing to have children?

londonone · 21/03/2012 19:33

Devon -

"Yes, people have children because they want to but it is a benefit to society overall"

So because of this we should pay those people?

devon0000 · 21/03/2012 19:33

As others have said I wouldn't call £20 per week a reward when a child costs several thousand in the 1st year. It seems to me that the only people really rewarded for having children are those who receive tax credits and other benefits too.

LittleAlbert · 21/03/2012 19:34

Channel 4 news on this right now. This family is losing £60 a week due to gov changes. They would be better off not working.

LittleAlbert · 21/03/2012 19:35

Child benefit is for children not adults.

devon0000 · 21/03/2012 19:35

Personally I haven't been paid by anyone to have children. I worked for 20 years straight from school and paid in plenty to the pot. Now dh, a higher rate tax payer is paying into the pot.

EdithWeston · 21/03/2012 19:37

They did say they were committed to reducing unfairness (I had thought this was part of the rationale for the UC).

Instead they have introduced more.

Actions speak louder than words?

Starwisher · 21/03/2012 19:37

You don't get paid for having children

You get support in recognition of the expense

ahhhhhpushit · 21/03/2012 19:38

Not read the whole thread but I'll tell you what he problem is. It's not that people earning over that amount are annoyed they wont be getting CB it is that in this country we are obsessed with what other people are getting. We are constantly looking around whining saying "not fair" "not fair".

londonone · 21/03/2012 19:39

Ahh so you think you deserve it because you paid in. What about people who have worked 20 years straight and don't have children, don't they deserve a little cashback as well? If you don't see it as a reward then why are you sop concerned that I ,for example, think it should be abolished?

londonone · 21/03/2012 19:41

starwisher - perhaps people in London should get some support "in recognition of the expense" Wink

lostboysfallin · 21/03/2012 19:42

£20 is £20 when you have a mortgage to pay.
The question the OP asked was that surely households earning nearly 4k a month don't need child benefit.
I can think of lots of scenarios were that money is well spent
Mortgage, childcare and travel are expensive.

ahhhhhpushit · 21/03/2012 19:43

huh sorry you lost me London. I think what? I am concerned about what?

Um right. I will lose CB as a result of these changes. THat's fine by me. I think it shoul dbe abolished totally. Or maybe only for the first 5 years' of a child's life.

What I wont be doing is moaning about the family next door who will keep it but earn considerably more as a household than ours. I'll just get up tomorrow and work a bit harder.

devon0000 · 21/03/2012 19:44

Personally It doesn't bother me that I am losing it. What I take exception to is the attitude that the state was doing me a huge favour paying me it in the 1st place.
I have never complained that my Tax and Ni is subsidding the couple working on minimum wage or part time who are receiving Tax Credits to top up their income and free prescriptions etc. It's not just people with children getting funds from the state.

ahhhhhpushit · 21/03/2012 19:45

Sorry london ive just realised you were saying ahh and not referring to my usename Blush

londonone · 21/03/2012 19:46

pushit - x post wasn't addressing you!

londonone · 21/03/2012 19:47

pushit -lol can see where the confusion arose Grin

gazzalw · 21/03/2012 19:50

Well we have one income of just under £50, 000 (phew) and I challenge anyone to say we are well off! We live in a grotty area with a relatively large (but not unaffordable) mortgage, we shop for clothes etc...in sales and TK Maxx, we have no car and live relatively frugally. We save a bit every month but not the equivalent of our CB at all. I would say we just about get by in London, but the DCs don't do any paid-for after-school activities and we are shocked that we are expected to give a voluntary donation of £450 a year for DS's grammar school place - that will be painful!!

londonone · 21/03/2012 19:50

Devon - No of course it's not just people with children getting funds. Overall I am a person who believes in a small state and low taxation therefore for me CB and various other things aren't things I agree with.

Starwisher · 21/03/2012 20:03

They do it's called London weighting.

Hecubasdaughter · 21/03/2012 20:05

Nothing would give me greater pleasure than to get no benefits at all but I don't agree that my dds deserve to starve because we are failures.