to think don't moan about it, do something about it!

[emmam25]

Particular new mummy friends have been moaning about their unappreciative/uncaring husbands. I'm just so annoyed by the fact that they keep on allowing themselves to be ground down; doing everything for their families without taking time for themselves. My feeling is that if they need a break, they should take a break rather than martyring themselves and then moaning about about how their oh doesn't organise a break for them. Or am I being unreasonable?

yes we avoid Auntymartyr at every opportunity!

she is 90 now and she is still moaning about how she wants to die, how she is waiting to die, how she cant wait till she dies.

she is fit and healthy, my nan was bedridden, blind and deaf by 90 and i know that she would have swapped in a heartbeat...