Long story short, got a call at work today to say DD was ill could I come and pick her up. Tried calling exP as he is in the same town as her school to see if he could get her (I work 12 miles away). He was at work (still in same town) but could pick her up at 2 when he finishes. Ring school to ask if that's ok, they say if someone could get there sooner it would be good (she wasn't vomitting). Ring ex to see if he could (was about 12.45) he said he couldn't leave work. So I rush off to pick her up.
Then try and make arrangements for tomorrow. Ask ex if he is working tomorrow to which he says he's working nights tomorrow (he's a care home worker) so has to sleep in the afternoon. I say can he have her in the morning then and I'll have to take afternoon as either holiday or unpaid leave. He makes this big fuss about having to go into another town to pay some money into an account for a bill which must be paid. I offer to do it for him as in my eyes work would prefer for me to be 5 mins late and in rather than not at all (slightly short staffed at the moment). He still makes a big fuss about it but finally ends up agreeing, ending with "you owe me one".
WTF??? It's his child too. Sorry about this garbled OP, but am still reeling at the events of the day an ex's attitude.