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To be all smug and delighted that gymnastics coach said by DD is by far the best in the class?

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professorsnape · 10/03/2012 23:30

DD, age 4 and half, started gymnastics a month ago, partly due to the fact that I wanted her to do a class in sports (would have preferred tennis as I play myself and love it!) but partly due to the fact that she's such a climber, always been very active, has fallen/hit her head loads of times, so wanted to help her to use up some of this 'hyper' energy and also to teach her to fall/tumble safely

Last week, when I went to collect her from the hour or so class, the coach said she was able to do something called a top hip circle, I think Confused almost immediately, whereas it usually takes them weeks to teach the kids her age the technique. Again today when I collected her, the coach, who's a young girl but seems to know her stuff, said she was way ahead of the others and 'was not just saying it as I'm her mother'. She said she has a natural talent for it, has excellent balance and co-ordination for her age:)

The cynical part of me thinks they might say this to lots of parents so you'll pay more money to enrol her for more class Grin (we've paid up til June) but part of me is a bit smug and a bit proud too Grin

Was a bit emotional about it all today as DD had a small health problem when she was born, in my fantasies today, I thought she could become a famous Olympian and be a role model for other kids, but am obviously BU and have lost the run of myself......

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AgentZigzag · 10/03/2012 23:34

Hehe YANBU Grin

It's OK to get it out of perspective when they're your own Grin

ImperialBlether · 10/03/2012 23:37

OK, well it wouldn't take three WEEKS, would it, rather three lessons?

And were you handing cash over at the time?

But no, you are not being unreasonable to be really proud of your child!

Mrsjay · 10/03/2012 23:42

thats great she has picked up so quickly she must have a talent for it , YANBU to be proud of your little girl Grin

Letchladee · 10/03/2012 23:56

No, be afraid - very afraid Grin.

It starts off that they're good, but then she'll be picked for competitive gymnastics and in the blink of an eye you'll be on a hamster wheel that is impossible to escape. Trust me.

My Dd1 started off like this, now 4 years later, I'm found at the gym club 4 times a week waiting for her to train. (she's 8 and does 12 hours a week - and if you think that's a lot, believe me it's not - some girls do one hell of a lot more!)

And now my DD2 is just entering the system.

My advice - run whilst you can Grin
No seriously, it's great news... But be prepared for hours upon hours of gymnastics ... as it doesn't end in the gym!

rhondajean · 10/03/2012 23:57

YANBU.

Enjoy.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 11/03/2012 00:08

My DD did gymnastics, she stopped at Christmas for a break.

It's the sewing on badges that did me. I'm a rubbish seamstress and had to buy the exact coloured thread to mask my effort. And the colours are varied and vibrant.

YANBU, it's lovely when your DC excells at something- especially so quickly.

DinahMoHum · 11/03/2012 07:36

lovely, well done to her

bumbleymummy · 11/03/2012 07:51

YANBU- that's great! :)

I think you would have gotten a completely different set of responses if your daughter was the best in the class at reading/Maths though. Apparently it's not acceptable to be proud of your child when they're academic but sports are ok!

lockets · 11/03/2012 08:08

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abrakebabra · 11/03/2012 08:10

I'm with Lockets. Proud is nice, smug is not.

youbethemummylion · 11/03/2012 20:01

70isaLimitbuy invisible thread it is a god send!!!

professor it is fine to be proud and tell all your family about it but just beware even close friends tend to find tales of how fantastic your children are come over all smug and smug is not nice.

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