To want a hand now and again

[bubblebutt]

Not a lot to ask is it from hubby as I feel shitty and cant do a lot today without feeling faint. What does he do goes out saying its a cold man up woman and I end up cleaning well throwing the dishes in the dishwasher. Felt faint and had to sit down again. I am now slobbing on the couch and he can fuck off if he wants any dinner. meh!!!!

As someone who doesn't own a dishwasher and never has, it always amuses me when people have 'domestics' about stacking it and emptying it

Sorry you feel shit though...why not phone a takeaway for yourself?

and make sure said takeaway is something your DH doesn't like

Do people without dishewashers not argue about who has to do them? Same thing, just there's a machine involved! If you're not the type to argue over chores you won't, dishwasher or no diswasher. I despise doing dishes and DH is actually awful at handwashing and despises the task also. We got a dishwasher. We still have niggles over who empties it!

OP - YANBU he's being a selfish twunt. Sit down and chill. On the plus side the cleaning up will be there waiting for you when you're feeling better!

I am ordering out for me and the kids. He is a twunt (love that word) and can fend for himself tonight.