AIBU to be angry with DH right now?

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Have just got back from hospital dropping DH off at cardiac catheterisation unit to have chest pains diagnosed.

3 other people in unit - all probably over 65, DH is just 50.

DH's father was dead at 42 from coronary heart disease. As long as I have know DH (20 years) he has ignored family history ( 2 older brothers with raised cholesterol and blood pressure) and eaten and drunk whatever he likes. 2 years ago his BP and cholesterol were elevated but he didn't get the results until recently as he said no one contacted him.

DH was 2 when his father died. DS is 20 months old. I know I'm jumping the gun and first we need a diagnosis, but AIBU to be feeling angry with DH right now, not supportive?

This is probably one of those situations where you will switch between different emotions tbh. Don't be too hard on yourself for feeling any of them but also don't be too hard on DH, perhaps he is afraid and thinking about it makes it real IYKWIM. Fingers crossed everything is ok and you can have a proper chat with him about it later.

thank-you Excited, problem is communication between us has never been brilliant - I think he thinks I'm always getting at him and that's the mundane stuff, not something significant like this.

Going to pick him up now and hear the results