Someone who i had been good friends with has started ignoring me and talking about me behind my back. It doesnt come as a surprise as she used to talk about a mutual friend all the time and then be all 'best friends' with her. This was one of the reasons i cooled off on our friendship.
I dont mind us not being friends but what i am finding extremely difficult is her bitching about me to mutual friends who are all now acting very cool towards me.
We live in a small village and it is at the point where i walked into nursery to pick up ds and old friend completely blanked me but stood loudly laughing with a group of people who i am also friendly with some only to chit chat at pick up etc. Some i know are oblivious to the situation but others not and i feel desperately let down by them. People whom i considered friends.
Even the mutual friend who she bitched about constantly has joined the band wagon, i presume completely unaware that she was being bitched about by her so called friend. She has however been texting me asking if i am ok becasue she knows i am down with other things going on at the mo. So i know she is trying to remain friends but it feels so false when i know this other girl will have been bitching about me to her.
I feel i just cant win.This woman is very charming and pleasant, she seems so lovely yet clearly she is not.
Whilst i can forget her and concentrate on my true friends (who are not in this nursery/village group) it is very difficult going to drop/ collect my ds each day and face these people. Clearly this woman is painting me in a bad light and tbh i have so much shit going on in my life at them moment i just cant take much more.