If smokers made a 'lifestyle choice' and it didn't affect me then of course I wouldn't give two hoots whether they wanted to kill themselves slowly. Christ, they keep me in a job - we amputate legs when people lose their blood supply - they don't tell you THAT on the fag packet. (Incidentally no one mentions smoking related disability - COPD, stroke, peripheral vascular disease)
But it DOES affect me doesn't it.
My father died when I was a teenager. I expect he thought 'oh I won't be one of the whatever%.' If I had thought he had said 'I know doing this is life limiting, I make my choice and I don't care' - well that would hurt me, as his daughter. I know for a fact that had he not smoked he wouldn't have died.
I can smell smoke on you, and no I don't comment because I am polite. You'd be surprised.
I get smoke blown in my face EVERY DAY. I have to walk through a cloud just to go through the entrance to work, anytime I walk anywhere people are smoking in the street, walking down the road, outside shop entrances. There is no avoiding it. And it doesn't harm me? How do you know that? I am breathing in someone else's poisonous habit. I'm sure most of you here are horrendously polite smokers who go out of your way not to let it near non smokers - unfortunately I don't come across these people much.
And most sadly, (for me) it sticks to the hair and clothes of my friends and family. It invades their homes. They don't realise this but I can smell it, my FIL will stand outside our front door and have his fag, then expect to come in and cuddle my daughter. This disturbs me.
In retrospect, "I hate smokers" was a tad harsh. I actually hate smoking. And that strong word - hate - yes I mean that with all my heart.