to think some things really can wait?

[pointythings]

So my (otherwise perfect) DH loses his sense of timing. I come down from putting the DDs to bed after a tough day at work, I have a horrendous head cold and can't breathe...

And he has dragged a load of stuff out of the spare room and wants me to go through it there and then in order to sort out what can stay and what can go instead of letting me veg out in front of the telly.

So AIBU to think this was really bad timing and could have waited until the weekend? It's not as if it had suddenly just appeared, so why NOW???

I'm afraid I was irritable with him.

Sounds like the BASTARD forgot to pay the telepathy bill this month.

If only there was another way to communicate.

Yanbu
I'd go stellar

YANBU my dh decided last week when i was illl to clear out the drawers in the dresser in the hall outside the bedroom just as i had gone for a nap i had an awful cold sigh tell him that you are ill and to do it himself , or wait till the weekend

@telepathy bill!

Thing is, I did a shedload of clearing out at half term, dragged stuff to the tip and to charity shops and to clothes/shoe recycling and all that. We both work, so house stuff really has to be done on weekends, and we always do something big on weekends in addition to washing, shopping, homework, cooking, cleaning etc. to stay on top of things.

Tonight was bad because (slight drip feed) as well as feeling grotty I'd also sorted out several permission slips, DDs leaving hoodie order for her school, taking up DD's new school trousers so they are the right length (and I hate sewing).

So I didn't really think it was beyond the bounds of normal understanding for DH to see that tonight was really not the night for this???

Rant over, I feel better already

I have every sympathy, my dh is exactly the same only he's not otherwise perfect

Leave the bastard!

bruxeur