I'm fed up. Life is just one long round of cooking/cleaning/separating fighting kids/worrying about my elderly mum and feeling guilty if I don't do special things for her all the time/worrying about money/feeling isolated and alone.
we have no family to help out with either the kids or my mum, it's all down to me/us
we haven't had a real break ever, no one comes and takes the kids for the weekend/night and organising them to go to friends at the same time usually never works out, someone is busy/working/ill etc.
we have absolutley no support. my kids are pre teens so its not like they need looking after all the time, but neither are they self sufficient yet and need looking after/driving about to their clubs etc and its all wearing me down
my mum is old and I have no family here to help out with her, she lives in sheltered housing but there is no one else to visit her at weekends/shop for her/sort things out for her etc etc again its all down to me, siblings are far away and hopeless
its all just going on and on with no breaks, no fun, no adult stiff, just the kids and my mum needing me all the time
and plse don't suggest anything that takes money, we have none of that either