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AIBU?

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To think that for some parents no school would ever get anything right?

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forward · 25/02/2012 19:30

I work in a primary school office. I try very hard to be polite and friendly to all parents and I find the school as a whole to be incredibly caring, much more so than I expected TBH, but there are some parents who make it incredible difficult to keep smiling!

There one woman, who has 2 DD in the school. Weds last week one of them had a headache. She told the teacher, but didn't really seem unwell, so the teacher told her to see how she was in a bit. When mum collected her, she was apparently terribly ill and mum was in the office next morning ranting about how DD had been left to "suffer" all day Hmm

Next day the other DD had a trip in the playground. No visible damage, but lots of complaining about being in agony. After the girl's 3rd trip to the office I decided I'd call mum and see what she wanted to do. No answer on home phone (where I expected mum to be home with other sick DD!) so I left a message on mobile just saying that I couldn't see anything much wrong but that she was complaining of being in a lot of pain, did mum want to come and have a look? Mum took nearly 2 hours to call back and then decided not to come anyway. I wonder what she'd have done if I'd called about the headache?! Next day she paid both girl's dinner money entirely in coppers! Biscuit

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everlong · 26/02/2012 09:00

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StarlightDicKenzie · 26/02/2012 09:08

DS is on his 4th school. They've all been crap for ds, bordering on inhumane But he has SN and the system allows them to be.

elizadoulalittle · 26/02/2012 09:11

I makes me Hmm when I see information given out on the internet obtained through work. For that YABU

YANBU, some parents will never be happy.

However, anytime I have taken my DDs to school and said please ring me if they are unwell it never happens which makes me Angry because yes they have been left to suffer. so Biscuit back at ya.

lesley33 · 26/02/2012 11:02

My SIL is constantly complaining to the school. For example she complained that her 10 year old didn't get enough sleep on an overnight trip as the other boys were being too noisy. Shock The school staff must hate her.

DialMforMummy · 26/02/2012 11:30

YANBU

BurningBridges · 26/02/2012 12:44

Of course some parents are mad as a nail, just as if you worked in a shop you'd get the odd squad in some days. But it sounds like a couple of misunderstandings where the OP has decided that she must be the injured party as it had all been a bit inconvenient for her. I find this does happen a lot in schools where parents have different expectations or staff think that as they have a lot to do there's no onus on them to do it particularly well! And as for paying in coppers, maybe she didn't realise that would make things awkward, or maybe she had no money in the house and that was all she could get together - some days I cast around wondering where I will get their dinner money from and start scratching around for coppers etc. If I had to do that I'd probably pop into school admin lady and say I am really sorry its all I had. But that wouldn't make it any better for you I suspect - OP?

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