Dh had an accident this morning involving himself and dd, which left him in hospital on an ecg. I have spent the day checking everyone is ok, pretending not to worry etc when I am worried sick etc. Had been up all night with a stomach bug too, so have had approx 3 hours sleep.
Dh then decides he is ok to go out for a drink with his friends as planned. He is still out now, and will be for the next few hours. Texted him to check he was still ok, and received "will be home in next two hours". I'm still up doing all the work I didn't do today because I was sorting everything out. Fair enough, the accident was not his fault, but I am cross that I will still be up working after he is home and in bed (drunk), yet will still be the one that has to get up with dd at 6am, despite having scraped together 6 hours of sleep over two days. If he had come home at 10 as planned, which would still have given him 5 hours drinking time, he could have got up with us too, and I could have done some of this in the morning.
I much much MUCH preferred parenting as a single parent!!