This is really petty but it's been doing my head in ...
My DP has alopecia ( random bald patches ) he's had it ever since we met back in the Dawn Of Time and no treatment made much difference so for years he shaved his head so it wasn't particularly noticable. Just recently he's stopped shaving and let it grow out ... He says he likes to feel there's something there ...
Problem is that it looks awful, bald bits and long straggles. I hate it. He won't talk about it, everytime it comes up he has a crisis and gets all upset and I end up backing down and seething inside.
Suggestions, please? Or tell me I'm being a controlling fuckwit and to leave the poor bloke alone ...