After 7 years of having one or two around for the first time I have a little time to myself as my youngest has started preschool. I have a friend who has an older child who is away at school and she'd like to meet up. Another friend with a new baby. Neither of them is particularly keen on meeting when I've got my little boy, also because I don't see him as much it's easier just to spend that time with him, he's quite active so likes going on his bike, swimming, things like that. So AIBU as I just need some headspace, just to preserve some time for myself.