AIBU to think that engaged couples...

[Kayoe]

...should have sex? More than say, hmm, 6 times in 5 months? Before we lived together he couldn't get enough, now its like he just, frankly, can't be arsed! Yep, he has a stressful job, however, I used to do the same job and TBH it ain't all that bad. I have tried everything, and I do mean everything. Even a trip to CentreParcs. All to no avail. I was on a promise tonight and he's currently asleep on the small sofa on the other side of the room. Have tried asking him and he says nothing is wrong. If so WTF wont he even give it a quick pump pump squirt (being coarse!). I MISS SEX. Please help!

He had problems, erm, keeping it up a few months ago, and also now actually getting it up in the first place. Never, ever used to happen. I get the standard nothing's wrong, then when I try to push the topic more, I am nagging
I hate to say this but you could be describing dh a couple of years ago. Turned out to be diabetic which affects the circulation iyswim.

Link worked, thanks Kayoe. Very enlightening and funny rofl .