Just to be clear, the point I made earlier about pampered/pandered/enabled working husbands has nothing to do with whether or not they should or shouldn't go business class.
I don't think it's the crime of the century to put the kids in economy. Though I probably wouldn't do it - we all flew first class to New York two years ago as a big family treat but when we go again we'll prob all fly economy.
My point is purely that I, and other women, have full time, 'high powered' jobs but don't expect our partners to afford us huge swathes of time for refueling/relaxation etc etc. It is utterly ridiculous. I get in from work every day and take over from dh and sort the kids out with baths, bedtime etc and I do exactly the same on the weekend and whenever I am at home.