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To not do everything my vet tells me to do?

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BettySuarez · 16/02/2012 21:37

We have 1 cat and 1 dog and both are up to date with flu vaccines (cat) plus Parvo and Kennel Cough (dog) plus both are regularly wormed and de-flead etc.

At the vets this week, cat was having booster jabs and vet was trying to persuade me to also have her vaccinated against Feline Leukaemia (?sp).

When I declined - she tutted at me Hmm

A I being unreasonable to think that 'enough is enough' and that I can't mitigate against every virus or threat that our pets might face?

I have always considered myself to be a responsible pet owner but surely a line has to be drawn somewhere.

So, should I hand myself in now to the RSPCA?

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ConstanceChatterley · 18/02/2012 19:42

FIV cats have to be kept indoors but not sure about leukaemia.

My vets are lovely - I always check whether my cat needs a tooth scaling (he's FIV+ and so more prone to mouth/gum problems) and they always say no - you'd think they'd bite my hand off.

QuietTiger · 19/02/2012 10:02

I think that like many things, it is dependent on the actual vet. Some are very money orientated, some are more animal orientated (and pragmatic).

IME, you need to shop around to find someone you are comfortable with - not neccessarily the "cheapest".

I'm the vets nightmare owner from hell a "difficult" client because I am more "educated" about my pets than the average owner and can smell the bullshit and stay up to date with felid medical research, so question my vet.

The one I use (for the cats) is very experienced in his field (cats) and so in my mind, if he recommends something, then I tend to go through with the procedure. Over the years, this has meant that I've spent a lot of money with him! (Of course, having 9 cats doesn't help Grin ), but my cats have had what I consider the most appropriate care for them. As well as cutting edge stuff, this includes not vaccinating one cat because she's elderly, and not operating on another and giving her the minimum medical intervention care and concentrating on palliative care because an operation would not have improved her quality of life for the short time she had left.

At the other end of the spectrum, my dog was unwell. The vet I used for her started messing about with loads of different treatments because a) she was insured and b) he didn't actually know what was wrong. £5,500 with Pet Plan later and he claimed she was "fixed". So out of curiosity, I requested a copy of the bill breakdown. It was "interesting". He'd done things like charge £3.50 for a face mask to operate and charge £45 for a nurse to do a bandage change on her leg.

When I queried my dogs bill with my cattle vet (a different vet practice again!!), she said that the bill was a little "steep" for the items on it...

In 4 vet practices (in Cardiff), I found the quote for a dental for the same cat, was £350, £150, £563 & £254. However, the "care" in all 4 practices was very different. The first, was for my feline only vet (and was the one I paid because I know the vet and the way the surgery works). The second was an "economy vet" at a major Pet Store who has been in the press for not doing things "correctly". The 3rd was my dog vet and the 4th my cattle vet (both of which have small animal practices and comparable care).

My post has turned into a bit of a ramble, but my point is that it is in your interest to be educated about things relating to your pet so you can question about things you are not comfortable about. There are, like doctors and any other professional, awesome vets, shit vets and vets in it to make money.

Animation · 19/02/2012 10:13

Vets seem to have got tutting to a fine art. Hmm

Make you feel like you don't care. Then I think... well do THEY really care as much as they have you believe, or do they want my money more.

shockers · 19/02/2012 12:13

I took my rabbit in to our old vet after a dog had got into our garden and worried it, the rabbit stopped eating so I took him to the vet. The vet told me it had nothing to do with the dog and the reason the rabbit wasn't eating was because he needed an op to file his teeth down. I took the rabbit back a day later for his op. The vet phoned and said that they would have to postpone the op because of the parasite that was clearly on his brain, causing his head to tilt. The rabbit's head had been perfectly straight when I took him in. I brought him home, with the antibiotics, he got better, I never took him back for the op. He died of old age 6 years later still with his teeth intact (the teeth that the vet said would stop him from eating completely).

I have four very healthy animals, all of which are registered with a new vet, and one who has to have daily medication for arthritis (he is an elderly dog). Whilst I would never neglect my animals' health, I will not take the vet's opinion as gospel any more.

shockers · 19/02/2012 12:14

Sorry, that was a bit garbled!

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