I've lived on the same street for about 12 years. For about 8 of those I have been on friendly terms with (amongst others) a woman in her 30s. It's gone from saying hello to longer chats to the occasional cuppa in one another's kitchens. Never progressing to "close friends" but we sort of look out for each other in a neighbourly way.
Anyway, after various dating ups and downs she met a guy about 18 mths ago and very quickly they decided to get married. They both came over to tell us about this and were really excited. However, a few weeks before the wedding (which was abroad) I was getting into my car and she rushed over and said "is it normal to for us to be constantly arguing all the time just before we get married?" We ended up having a long talk during which she told me that she was having second thoughts but felt under alot of pressure from family to go ahead with the wedding. During the talk her fiance pulled up and she made her excuses and left. The wedding went ahead and they both returned from their honeymoon looking happy enough. He then accepted a job in a different city and so lives there during the week. I cannot put my finger on it but I have a very uncomfortable feeling about him, both my DP and I both feel the same about it.
So, a couple of months ago we bumped into her again on the street and she looked tired and tearful. Her husband said hello and then went into the house. She then told us that she is pregnant but that she is feeling very ill and very low. She was crying and saying that she doesn't feel that her husband understands how ill she is and is getting annoyed with her because she doesn't want to cook since she is feeling so nauseous etc. We tried to reassure her that it is normal to feel a bit poorly at the start and to feel nervous etc. After a while she went inside and we both looked at each other in a "are you thinking what I'm thinking kind of way?" We both agreed that we were starting to feel kind of worried about her. So that week I dropped a card through her letter box to say that we are around if she needs a cuppa, any help etc. Since then, everytime we have seen her or her husband they have barely spoken to us, not mentioned the card, nothing at all. Do you think IABU to be worried about her? Should I go over and see if she is ok or do you think I am interfering?