I've posted about him before. Perhaps it would be best to read my previous post on him for background as this sort of follows on from problems I've been having with him. He works 5am to 7pm every day and then does a Saturday night shift from 4pm to 7ammsunday morning. He's in bed all day sat to prepare for night shift and then he sleeps all day Sunday after he's done his night shift. He's self employed so can choose his own hours. Every two weeks he goes out with his mates. My partner is in his 40s and we live together. No kids. My beef is tgat the only time we spend together is from 7pm to about 9:30pm weekdays when we are both shattered from work and then for a bit on Sunday evening. I've tried asking him if he can take a Saturday off to spend with me but he won't and he always says that I sjodnt moan because he takes me away a lot. So the thing is when he goes out every fort ight with his mates he doesnt come back til 4am in the morning. I feel this is disrespectful and have told him but he says it's hurting no one. I also told him I'm not overreacting as my friends say it's disrespectful and he said 'I dk t give a monkeys' am ibu?