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to think perhaps this family could have done something differently?

65 replies

thinneratforty · 12/02/2012 16:09

www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2012/feb/11/family-living-in-tentTheir rent seemed really low. And is 'going out' enough of a reason to move into a tent? We never go out either or have much left after the bills are paid, but would still rather stay in a nice warm house.

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rhondajean · 12/02/2012 16:11

I'm thinking social services will be interested in a nine month old baby in a tent in minus seven weather!

Wtf are thy thinking, honestly.

catgirl1976 · 12/02/2012 16:13

wow - I am all for alternative lifestyles but a tent in winter with a baby seems a little ill advised Hmm

MrsTerryPratchett · 12/02/2012 16:14

Shock horror, they couldn't afford haircuts.

LaurieFairyCake · 12/02/2012 16:15

They're keeping it constantly warm. Frankly they've made it sound cosy. They also sound like very loving parents - they are both there to look after her for now too.

rhondajean · 12/02/2012 16:17

They are living with a stove and candles, in a tent, with no running water or toilet and washing facilities, in minus seven weather, with a baby. I cannot get my head around it. Ss must intervene surely!

QueenOfFeckingEverything · 12/02/2012 16:18

[shrug]

We live in a caravan for very similar reasons. Its the only way to manage on our income, and tbh we probably have a higher standard of living in many ways than if we were in a house.

Its not just a tent either - from the pictures it is a bell tent or yurt, made of heavy duty canvas, that has a woodburner fitted inside. They are actually pretty damn warm in winter., We have friends who live in them all year round - in fact I know people whose babies were born under canvas. The midwives didn't call social services Smile

QueenOfFeckingEverything · 12/02/2012 16:19

Why would SS intervene? They are probably well toasty. There are such things as launderettes, and washing in a tin bath, and water butts - and as for candles, what's the issue there?

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HJisthinkingofanewname · 12/02/2012 16:20

I read the article thinking WTF as they gave up work too so won't build up any money by living there but I think if it's a yurt or similar if a different idea do living in a tent

rhondajean · 12/02/2012 16:21

I can only see a picture of a stove? It just calls it a tent, then again there's not much of a story in "people live in yurt".

If its a camping tent, the child shouldnt be living in it, and th candles are worrying too.

BBisBBack · 12/02/2012 16:22

It isnt what I would do but they seem to have thought it through, and they seem to be keeping the child warm etc and have a back up plan. Good luck to them!

DaenerysTargaryenButCallMeDany · 12/02/2012 16:22

Ss? Really? The child sound fine, I'm sure Ss have more children to worry about, maybe those who are being beaten to death? Not the ones kept warm and living in a tent.

rhondajean · 12/02/2012 16:23

Candles + crawling baby + canvas = bad idea.

QueenOfFeckingEverything · 12/02/2012 16:24

Its not a camping tent, the picture in the paper made that clear. I think it is a bell tent.

troisgarcons · 12/02/2012 16:25

Lots of people, even in this country, live withoug heat, light, running water and make do. I don't see living in a tent is any different.

Why the hysteria? Its a life style choice. Some people return to basics. Besides they have the use of the farmhouse (showers, charging mobiles - I did laugh at that). The bloke has just taken himself out of the economy - doesnt claim benefits, and works in a barter system ie labour for field rent.

QueenOfFeckingEverything · 12/02/2012 16:26

Oh I see the picture on the website now. Well, the paper copy had more pictures, showing furniture and canvas and stuff.

LaurieFairyCake · 12/02/2012 16:27

I have to feed my stove which heats the whole house every 6 hours.

If it's a yurt then they are liveable all year round and are better than some shoddy housing - seriously, there are flats and houses which are council owned which are thick with mould and much worse conditions than this.

TheVermiciousKnid · 12/02/2012 16:27

They have access to a toilet and shower in the farm house. They can also take refuge in the farm house in emergencies. It's not a 'normal' tent! I think social services have better things to do...

JarethTheGoblinKing · 12/02/2012 16:28

Looks fine to me...

rhondajean · 12/02/2012 16:28

Ah ok we can tell shelter to call of the campaign for decent housing then, obviously it doesn't actually matter, silly them putting so much effort into itConfused

Queen, the only picture I have in the article merely shows a stove not a tent, I am viewing an iPad version, do t know if tht makes the photos different.

TooImmatureTurtleDoves · 12/02/2012 16:31

But how are they going to save up to buy a plot of land, if she's not working and he's doing farm labour in between chopping wood, whatever that means? Using someone else's toilet isn't really a working solution, either. Also, plots of land are really expensive if they are viable house sites. I'm fairly sure you can't just buy a bit of field for peanuts and then bung a house on it. Even an eco-house.

ChippingInLovesEasterEggs · 12/02/2012 16:31

I hope it is a yurt with a wood burner or they're going to be soooo cold.

Maybe SS hasn't been involved because it's not necessary?!

FutureNannyOgg · 12/02/2012 16:31

In mongolia people live in gers (like yurts) just fine, with much colder winders than here.

longjane · 12/02/2012 16:31

just over 100 years ago we would have all had candles.

and he has heat on all night who has their central heating all night?

not sure about the not working bit as surely they would need to save some money to get there dream.

and how is the farmer going to get rid when he want them to go?
and how will he stop others who want to do the same?

DesperatelySeekingSedatives · 12/02/2012 16:32

Eh? They gave up work so they'd have more money? Confused

They sound a bit dumb naive tbh. This doesn't seem like a surefire way top get out their rut and afford a place to live. They are so not the only family to struggle in these current difficult times to get by. I can't believe anyone would go live in a tent because they couldn't afford haircuts and a social life. Hmm

Hell, we're on a low income with 2 young DC and my roots have needed doing since December. Can't even afford a pack of DIY hair dye and can't remember the last time I went to the pub.

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