It's another one of my H threads I'm afraid, sorry.
Very brief background: I'm 39 +2 with DD, first baby. H and I seperated badly a couple of months ago, we're currently in the process of divorcing and H is serving a prison sentence. He's not going to be in DD's life.
Today I got a letter through from H asking me to come and visit him. We have talked about this, I have agreed that yes I will go and see him at some point in the future, but my priority for the next few weeks is DD and I will only do so when it's the right time for me. So the pair of us agreed that I would contact him when I'm ready, not the other way round.
So now he's asked me to go and see him on Valentine's Day next week. AIBU to think this is a bit odd? H and I have never really made a big deal of Valentine's Day, but it still seems a bit weird somehow. Apart from anything DD is due on Valentine's Day 
. I know I most likely won't actually give birth on my due date, but that's not really the point. I was planning on sending back a to-the-point letter saying sorry, that date doesn't suit me but maybe in a few weeks. Then I made the mistake of discussing this with a friend, who thinks I'm being a bit unfair. It's not like I have plans with anyone else and H and I have never made a fuss about Valentine's Day, so to all intents and purposes it's just another day, and as long as I'm not having DD I should go. So should I? Really not sure now.