I am friends on Facebook with my DN. she is 13 and has for some time been a bit rebellious. She has refused to let her parents see her Facebook and they have not pressed the issue (nasty break up and IMO are point scoring with the kids).
I saw yesterday that my DN had fallen out with a girl from school - let's call her Helen. It appears that Helen had then defriended my DN and posted a photo with a nasty comment. DN's friends it seemed all barrelled in online for the bun fight whilst posting on my DNs wall about how Helen was a stupid bitch etc etc and how good the 'banter' was on Helen's wall.
Now of course I couldn't see the 'banter' on Helens wall but I have an uneasy feeling that from Helen's point of view it wasn't banter but bullying.
Am I totally over reacting, is this just what teenagers are like? I feel I should say something to my DSis.
A bit of a ramble sorry but am unsure if I should do anything at all tbh