*how would you feel after having contractions for 2 days you were tld your had 'false labour'?
followed by 'failure to progress'*
I felt fine being told both these things. I have a degree in English and the semantics of the language used was the last thing on my mind at the time!
Just because you don't like the origins of a word doesn't mean it should be obliterated. If language hadn't evolved and it's meanings hadn't changed our world and our communication would be a lot more backward and limited.