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AIBU to think that 95% of people...

290 replies

PurplePidjin · 08/02/2012 19:14

...do not have a significant phobia of needles?

So why do only 4 or 5 in 100 of us who are medically capable actually bother to give blood? Where are the rest of them?

It took 30 minutes of my afternoon, and they deliberately stay open late so people can pop in on the way home from work and have an excellent excuse to slob on the sofa for a bit

Oh, and apparently the registers are now cross-referenced do my Anthony Nolan sample is relevant to both Grin

www.blood.co.uk

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PurplePidjin · 08/02/2012 20:02

I have aimed this thread at the people who could but don't

Many folk have valid reasons why they can't

But equally, many people think "Oh yeah, must get round to that one day"

I signed up as a student yet made my first donation aged 26. I've missed through laziness, piercings, shifts, anaemia blah blah boring.

More people are needed to spend an hour and a half a year sitting in a chair eating biscuits!

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CelstialNavigation · 08/02/2012 20:02

Some of us in other countries are prohibited from donating now as we previously lived in the UK. That came as a surprise...

MyLifeIsStillChaotic · 08/02/2012 20:04

How long does it take to give blood? I have two and a half hours a week where I would be able to as my children are in preschool/nursery. Could I realistically give blood at 10am (if I made an appt obviously) and get back to my son's preschool 20 miles away for 11.15am pickup?

I am more than willing to do it but I have to work it around my children.

MyLifeIsStillChaotic · 08/02/2012 20:05

Oh x post purple - if it takes an hour and a half then I just can't do it.

PurplePidjin · 08/02/2012 20:07

Emsy and Posie both win the prize for "best comprehension of an OP" Wink

Apologies to those to whom I have given the stick's incorrect end Smile

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t0lk13n · 08/02/2012 20:07

I am not allowed to give blood as I had a blood tranfusion when my son was born 17 yrs ago. I gave blood after that until 1998 but was told after that the rules had changed. So I am not frightened of needles but am not allowed.

ReindeerBollocks · 08/02/2012 20:07

My son has severe needle phobia and although he is obviously too young to donate it shows massive ignorance to say no one likes needles or just suck it up and get over it. Stupid way to highlight a great topic IMO.

However, as it does need highlighting, then yes people should donate if they can. I would have loved to donate, however while donating a kidney they tore a renal artery and I was given a large transfusion. Plus I've always been too light to donate. But having been on the receiving end of a transfusion I am immensely grateful.

Sparklingbrook · 08/02/2012 20:08

It doesn't take an hour and a half in my experience. Three quarters of an hour tops.

ReindeerBollocks · 08/02/2012 20:08

My son has severe needle phobia and although he is obviously too young to donate but it shows massive ignorance to say no one likes needles or just suck it up and get over it. Stupid way to highlight a great topic IMO.

However, as it does need highlighting, then yes people should donate if they can. I would have loved to donate, however while donating a kidney they tore a renal artery and I was given a large transfusion. Plus I've always been too light to donate. But having been on the receiving end of a transfusion I am immensely grateful.

MeltedChocolate · 08/02/2012 20:08

This is why I am too scared to. I nearly faint each time I get bloods taken.

greensnail · 08/02/2012 20:09

Have just booked an appointment, thanks for giving me the push to get around to it!

birdsofshoreandsea · 08/02/2012 20:09

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sodapops · 08/02/2012 20:09

I can't because I have had a transfusion. DH does though.

This thread has got me thinking none of my family do and I don't think DH's sisters do eitherSad. That's terrible isn't it? I remember going to the church hall with my parents and waiting while they gave blood.

PurplePidjin · 08/02/2012 20:09

Half an hour (including waiting) x3 per year, Mylife. Approximately Smile

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AlpinePony · 08/02/2012 20:09

Because I lived in the UK in the 80s and therefore am a CJD risk.

When living in the UK was a high risk donor.

I have received a transfusion though, so thank you to those of you who do.

ReindeerBollocks · 08/02/2012 20:09

X-posted with OP, and double posted. I should just give up really.

Apologies to OP.

TangerinePuppet · 08/02/2012 20:10

I'm O-neg and give blood every 3 months.

That needle ain't small

MyLittleMiracle · 08/02/2012 20:11

Unfortuantely, not everyone can actually give blood, i am on medication which prevents me from doing so and suffer from iron dificency anaemia, and have recetly had problems with b12 and folate anaemia, i am epileptic and have never been able to give blood since being diagnosed aged 18. Although there are a vast amount of people who do not give blood who could, these statistics need to take this into consideration.

PurplePidjin · 08/02/2012 20:13

Thanks greensnail and the others who've been reminded.

Sorry, that's 1.5hours per year not per visit

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keepingupwiththejoneses · 08/02/2012 20:14

I gave blood for years until one time my arm blew up and turned into one huge bruise, doc told me not to do it again. My mum can't give blood as she has renal problems. DH can't as he does have a medical phobia of needles, as soon as a needle goes into his skin he convulses, it is not just being a bit scared, he can't even have any dental work done as it has happened when the dentist tried to give him a needle in his gum.
I am quite sad that I can't give blood any more as I know I have a very pure form of A+ which used to get refined to be given to hemaphiliacs!

PurplePidjin · 08/02/2012 20:15

Mylittle, they do take it in. I in no way intended to make anyone feel bad, sorry Sad

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BeeWi · 08/02/2012 20:15

Annoys me no end that I can't give blood as I lied in the UK and am apparently a CJD risk. I was brought us as a veggie, have never eaten cow, so silly.

Used to give blood in the UK until they changed the rules which put me down as a 'malaria risk'. Never had malaria, would have developed it by now if was going to have it. Seemed silly for someone quite clean living to be stopped from giving blood. It upset me because it seems to be a quietly altruistic thing you can do.

EauDeLaPoisson · 08/02/2012 20:16

Sorry not read all the replies so sorry if I repeat myself here- I just DONT get the risk of HIV thing...I mean fine eliminate people who may have HIV risk factors for up to say six/nine months until it will show up in the blood but indefinatley is ridicuolous- its like saying sorry but you cant trust our blood to be screened!

ash6605 · 08/02/2012 20:16

Must be nice to have a 2yr old that sits happily in his pushchair eating raisins while you give blood, not everyone is that lucky Envy nor do I have good veins, tried twice to give blood and not even a trickle, really can't bare to go through it again tbh

RillaBlythe · 08/02/2012 20:18

I just registered.

I expect to be rejected on grounds of living outside the UK though.