Nobody's arguing that one type of birth is 'right' or another is 'wrong'. But it's quite fair to argue that someone has their facts wrong!
I disagree here shagmund - those against home births have made it quite clear that they think that choice is wrong, and that no amount of good quality research backing up the safety of homebirth is convincing them.
Fine, but since they are not the ones having the home birth I can't see why they are getting so annoyed. None of us who have had a home birth have said that it's right for everyone. None of us have suggested that we should be having unassisted births.
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whatmeworry Shagmund, I think your advice on this thread....
^www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/1402389--to-consider-VBAC-homebirth^
....is not just clearly ideologically led but is the most uncaring about safety that I've seen on this subject to date.
Sorry, could you point out where she is being idealogically led and uncaring?
Nobody can tell you whether you should or shouldn't - it's such an intensely personal decision.
We all have our comfort zones around risk-taking when it comes to birth
... For me it was the right decision, ....
What sort of input have you had from the VBAC midwife at the hospital?
That sounds like common sense to me - she's discussed it with her midwife and it was right for her. It's a personal decision that you need to discuss with your midwife.
Actually I'd say you are at less risk of having a difficult labour at home. And here whatmeworry you are quoting shagmund out of context and she is answering someone else. One of the problems with English is we don't know whether someone means you specifically or you in general. Reseach from the RCOG and RCM backs up that statement, but again the sensible decision is to discuss it with the staff who are caring for you, and weigh up the pros and cons for your circumstances.