I was dead set on a home birth last year but as I reached the end of my pregnancy I had some problems with blood pressure and my heart, so it was ruled out and I had to have a hospital birth (only birthing centre type place in my town is attached to the hospital).
As it was my bp and heart were fine throughout the labour but my DS became stuck and I ended up having an assisted delivery and a (very welcome) epidural as i was in unbelieveable agony after hours of pushing to no avail.
I have to say this has turned me off the idea of home birth all together, because had my bp and heart problems not occured and I had gone ahead with my homebirth my baby would still have got stuck and I would have ended up being hauled out of my living room birthing pool and transfered to hospital whilst pushing/exhausted and in incredible pain. The whole experience was scarey enough, but to add a blue light hospital dash onto it would have been horrific.
Following the birth i was really unwell and very weak, I could not have got through the night without the fantastic support of the midwives on the ward and when my husband asked when was able to come home, I had to admit to not having even thought about asking about timescales for discharge.
I know the stats very well as i did all my research before deciding on a home birth and I respect and encourage a woman's choice about where they give birth. It certainly makes sense to me to look seriously at homebirths if your town only has a midwife led unit because then any complications mean a blue light transfer to the nearest hospital anyway, so why not take the chance to stay at home if you have it.
I suppose my point (if I have one is) that even low risk pregnancies can become complicated labours and women who choose to labour and give birth in hospital should not be dismissed as fools who do not understand the statistics. And my problem with statistics is that you just never know whether you will be that one in the million.
Sorry that's a bit rambley
And also I hate when this subject gets all bunfighty, all that conflict just makes us look like a load of hysterical infighting women who can't be trusted to make sensible decisions about ourselves or our childen 