I wouldn't listen to those who say cut out carbs, or eliminate a particular food from your diet tbh.
I think it is fairly simple and depends on these things:
Eat smaller portions
Fill up on vegetables and complex carbs like brown rice
Don't drink too much wine
And do exercise, not least because it's good for your heart, circulation and mental well being, whether it helps you lose weight or not.
Actually, it does help with weight loss but not immediately.
The increased appetite wears off after a while:
I walk between 4 and 8 miles a day, and when I started doing it, I was almost fainting when I got home and eating 3 bowls of cereal!
In the first month, I ate massive amounts of carbs, so didn't lose weight (but didn't gain weight either.)
Then, gradually, I found that my body became used to the extra exercise, and I didn't need to eat more.
I lost a stone and a half over 3 months.
On days that I don't walk, my appetite is naturally smaller.
I feel like the human body is designed to do quite a lot of exercise, and I feel much more in tune with my body now.
Also, when you are losing weight, it's a good idea to do weight training exercise (e.g free weights/ press ups/dips etc) as this will prevent muscle loss, and also, lean muscle helps to burn fat.