SiL asked to come up here for the day to see Dc3 for the first time. Dh and her don't get on but she is always the golden girl in the family because she is the youngest.
We live in rural Wales up a rather steep mountain, and even though we haven't had a lot of snow it is lethal with ice and Dh feel on his bum putting the rubbish in the bin :o (about a meter walk down the path)
So we agreed that SiL shouldn't come up tomorrow Dh rang her to tell her not to come and why. She got really upset saying we don't want her, don't love her and so on and that her Dc will be gutted that he can't play with his cousins.
An hour later MiL rang up Dh answered and she told him that he was awful and cruel to his sister and that we should go down there if she couldn't come here cause Dh is a better driver. Dh said he was not taking his family in this weather. MiL hung up then called again a half hour later from SiL house and had another go at poor Dh and he came off the phone in tears.
He is now wondering if he has done the right thing so I am throwing it to the MN jury.
AWBU?