Okey dokey here goes. DP and I have been together 8 yrs enaged for 1 year, we have one DC and fertility troubles so ttc number 2 has been ongoing for a while. We have no money for the big wedding and im not even sure thats what I want if we could.Last year was not ideal for us but we have gotten past it and its broughtbus closer. So.... Given its a leap year would i be tacky and insane to arrange a surprise wedding? This would mean everyone being in on it but also would mean that alot of the more distant family wouldnt be invited? Altho we would have a big party after? As in weeks after not days? Would also mean some colluding with inlaws and my mum but all in all im actually super up for it... I think?! Best friend has a dress i can wear would rent dp a nice suit, and ds. Other than that flowers etc are all doable ... Someone talk sense is it romantic as the notion in my head or is it tacky?!
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