Tomorrow is 10yrs since DH and I officially started living together, I asked my mum if my brother could babysit (as he offered when he gave us vouchers for a meal out for xmas) turned out he was busy but my dm said she would look after dc at her house, no problem, I was chuffed and really looking forward to it.
Then yesterday I was on the phone and she said she would look after them but come to our house, I have to be 100% honest and say I was disappointed, I have been losing weight so I can wear my wedding underwear as dh has never seen it on me so I was hoping to go for a meal and come back here and well I'm sure I don't need to explain..........
I saw her today and she agreed to have them at hers as it meant so much to me but now I feel bad.......
Should I let them stay there even though dm and dc's would rather dc's stayed here and I'm being selfish or should I enjoy the 1 night of being selfish as we are about to spend 3 full on weeks with them while we take on a holiday of a lifetime to Florida in just over a weeks time and this is our last chance for a night alone?