Unfortunately you'll get this, it will range from gently humour born of either envy or lack of understanding, to full on judgement that you must not only be lazy, you're also a leech, a bit thick, lacking in aspiration and even 'not a proper woman' (because a proper modern woman would rather die than SAH).
Ignore it all.
I AM looking for work because I want to. But if people dare to say "look at you with your hair done (I mean WTF?) you must have too much time on your hands" I have started telling them that I don't have to justify anything to anyone else and I'm not the reason for their lack of happiness so back off.
For the gentle quips, I make ones in return with a smile "Not got a job yet?" well, "Not if it will make me as miserable as you!" for example.
The fact is, decent people don't care what you do with your life. My best friend works crazy hours, we don't judge each other.
Miserable bastards, busybodies, world haters and those that harp on about choice yet bombard insults with anyone who does anuything differently... ignore them. You won't change them.
Who gives a stuff what they think? Let them think you're useless, the spite they spew doesn't wash with most people. Dignified, proud, silence. You know you're not worthless.