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To still be fuming about the 'conversation' I had with a dog owner while I was out this morning.

46 replies

moochima · 30/01/2012 18:01

I live in the midst of a big public park and, seeing that the guy who had just parked his car and got out with his 2 dogs was walking away into the distance while his dog relieved himself, I had an internal debate about just leaving it (first time I'd ever been out jogging - trying to help the stress levels!) but decided to be proactive and called to him to point out what he'd 'missed'.

He started spouting loads of stuff about how, as it was a country area, it was ok for dog poo to be just left (this was right by a road that people walking through the park always walk on - themselves with buggies on the road, their kids romping along the grassy verge - just where the the dog had gone), how cow and sheep poo were 'part of the countryside too', how if I wanted to campaign against something then I should focus on the plastic bags full of dog poo that people abandon and which take 15 years to biodegrade and to "stop urbanising our country"!. While this was going on his other dog also had a large crap about 3 feet from where the other one went, while he carried on justifying why it's ok to just use an area where kids play, families barbecue, fun runs take place etc as his dog's personal toilet. When I asked him if it would be ok for me to bring my dog to crap outside his house he sneeringly told me of course not because he lives in a town and that's what the country exists for . . .

I am just still cross about the whole thing and though I didn't at the time get all officious - part of me wishes I'd taken his numberplate and threatened to 'report' him (though not sure to who??) - at least it might have meant he'd been a bit more aware in future. I'm so sick of dog poo being a permanent addition to any walk - the pram wheels are always smeared with it, my older son's shoes are encrusted with it and I have to helicopter around the toddler to ensure that hands that have made contact don't go in the mouth . . .

Needed to rant, it's been on my mind all day - AIBU?

OP posts:
PopcornBiscuit · 30/01/2012 18:55

YANBU. "The country", particularly when this means footpaths and places where children play, is not a toilet for townies' pets Angry

OriginalJamie · 30/01/2012 19:00

I think there probably are places where it's OK to let your dog poo and make the argument he made.

This wasn't on of them, though

ClothesOfSand · 30/01/2012 19:22

There is a list somewhere of where dogs can poo from a legal perspective. Moorland is one of those places and moorland is sometimes part of a national park.

I would say that the common sense distinction is that if you are on an expanse of wild looking moorland and your dog poos in a place that is far from the path, so that somebody would have to leave the past and push through some kind of thick, prickly bushes and trudge through a bit of deep bog to reach it, then you probably don't need to worry about the poo. No parent after all is going to let a small child get badly scratched on bushes and sucked into a bog and the poo is the least of their worries. If your dog poos on the path across the moor or right next to the path, you should pick it up, because cyclists/small children playing/people walking also use that area, as in the case of the OP.

Lulaloo · 30/01/2012 19:35

YANBU sadly I know someone who lost their sight in one eye after touching dog poo and then their eye as a very small child, makes me very cross when I see this happening.
I agree with clothes of sand does depend on the area but definitely must be picked up in Urban areas.

NorthernWreck · 30/01/2012 19:53

YADNBU!
The woods by us are full of it. Some dog owners seem to think that if it is not on the path, they dont have to pick it up.
Well, ds runs around the trees etc, and no children just sedately stay on the path do they?
It makes me want to go to these peoples houses and shit on their front lawns!
Grr!

NoOnesGoingToEatYourEyes · 30/01/2012 19:59

YANBU.

I always clean up after my dog and I hate it when other owners don't clean up after theirs.

If you see him (or anyone else) doing the same thing in the future you can take the registration number and report it to the dog warden through your council offices or website.

TheMonster · 30/01/2012 20:01

YANBU.
I have two dogs and poo-picking is part of life. I hate dog poo around everywhere. Lazy feckers shouldn't be allowed a dog.

ragged · 30/01/2012 20:04

yanbu. The only time I don't mind dog mess left behind is when it gets flung deep into hedgerows or bramble. I don't' care how "countryside" the area is otherwise, it's just... ugh. Very selfish. Shouldn't be left where livestock graze or people could possibly walk either.

ModreB · 30/01/2012 20:19

I would have picked it up and put it on his windscreen. Without a bag.

emsyj · 30/01/2012 20:25

YANBU. However, given that the pavements in my town (which is quite naice and not rough by any stretch) are littered with dog shit, I have to conclude that an awful lot of dog owners do not and will not pick up their dogs' poo.

If I ruled the world, I would take their dogs away. Picking up poo is part of owning a dog (and one of the reasons that I could never own one).

I had an, ahem, altercation with someone about this very issue a few weeks ago - her dog did a massive shit on a concreted cycle/foot path and she bagged it up in a Tesco carrier, knotted the top and slung it onto the railway line (which backs onto people's gardens). Disgusting.

charlatan · 30/01/2012 20:57

YANBU
A dog owner once let their dog poo on the pavement in front of my FILs gate and didn't pick it up. He was at home that day and saw what happened so went and got a shovel from the shed, scooped the poo up and followed the dog owner home and dumped it outside their gate! Don't think they did it again after that!

attheendoftheday · 31/01/2012 03:03

Dog poo actually poses a risk to livestock and should always be picked up if there are sheep or cows around, so I don't agree that dog poo is ok in the country. Details here. He was wrong and vile and YANBU.

WMDinthekitchen · 31/01/2012 05:02

I won't have a dog because I do not want to pick up its deposits (although am completely in agreement that dog owners must do so). I once went out on the pavement in front of my house where a dog owner was letting pooch pooh right in the middle (not even in the gutter). I smiled hugely and said in a loud voice (amateur thesp and extrovert), 'From the bottom of my heart, thank you. Thank you for choosing the pavement in front of my house. I feel so privileged and grateful that you should choose this spot so that your dog can leave us a memento. No doubt you will go home, hoping against hope that another dog owner will have accorded you the same, wonderful gift.' The dog was taking its time and several people walked past. Her face flamed and she did kick the pile into the gutter. Never saw her again. Ugh!

OriginalJamie · 31/01/2012 16:12

attheendoftheday - didn't realise that

catgirl1976 · 31/01/2012 16:15

YANBU

Dog poo is horrible as they eat meat - totally different from sheep / cow

what an idiot (him, not you)

FutureNannyOgg · 31/01/2012 16:23

My parents live right next to a country park that is really more country than park, but it is council owned and there are lots of signs making it clear that dog poo is to be cleared up.
The people who graze their cows and sheep (and it's fairly unlikely this is in the same area the dog walkers, kids and joggers are) own the land or pay for the privilege. In his garden he can leave all the poo he likes, but not in a public park that everyone is supposed to enjoy.

CoffeeDog · 31/01/2012 16:27

Next time take a plastic bag out with you and deposit the dog's shit on his car preferable from height over the front window.......

BumbleBee2011 · 31/01/2012 16:38

YANBU
I live in the countryside, I pick up after my dog even while pushing a pram (i know ppl walk/run on the road where i walk) and I take the bags home with me and put them in my bin.

If I have to dodge one more turd left by idiots like that guy I swear I will scream....

Pixieonthemoor · 31/01/2012 17:38

I think you should have waited for him to leave then picked some up with a stick and plastered it on the door handles of his car!!

BroomForMyChin · 31/01/2012 17:49

lula I also know someone who lost their sight in one eye from falling in dog poo as a child. Very sad Sad

It is vile to leave dog poo around, no excuses whatsoever. Well done for questioning him on it.

YANBU

nizlopi · 31/01/2012 17:53

Quick search 'Biodegradable Dog Waste Bags' on google.

405,000 results.

Yeah, his logic is flawed.

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