She's says she is to scared to drive, but will drive other places. We used to live walking distance and she wouldn't drive there as scared of road been busy. We've moved to more rural area and about 30 min drive. No motorway needed be used to get here and still she don't drive here. She will drive to her dd's and for work.
We do go and visit and have collected her and dropped her home, even my parents have collected her. FIL is currently in NZ till spring and goes back their every winter for work and to maintain his house and boat over there. She won't go with him as doesn't like his boat. He drives her over when he is home.
AIBU to think of she can drive for work (to people's homes to care for them and transport them to hospital etc) and can drive to her dd1's she could drive here?
There's been a few odd issues like our wedding party where she and her 2 dd's bought their own food with them. Oartly because we got married in registry office with just them, my parents and a sibling, then had reception following day but only small with immediate family and close friends. I was 33 weeks pregnant and financially we couldn't afford much. She was very upset as we didn't invite aunts/uncles/cousins etc.
EI don't think she likes me much, tho we've never fallen out. When she is here she doesn't really pay attention to the children (12, 4 and 3 months).